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School, expectations and hurt

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#1 ·
Does anyone here experience "everyone chip-in" bully in school? Like everyone just shuns you or looks at you judgingly like your lower than them?
I'm 14 this year so my parents practically wants my life available for them to read just like a piece of transparent glass. And all those snark comments... yeah stabs me through my heart terribly.
 
#2 ·
Yeah, like, nobody talked to me. I've actually sat in the bathroom during lunch. I took their snide remarks and made myself stronger. I mean it can suck having no friends, but it can also give you a chance to become your very best. I started skipping lunch to study in the library, and I got a job at a retail store in the mall. This helped me become thinner, smarter, and more fashionable, and before I knew it, people would invite me to lunch and ask me for fashion advice.
Parents can be pretty nosy. Idk, I pretty much avoided them and studied or worked. But it's your first year in high school, so you cam understand why they're concerned.
I know high school can suck, but just try to find other, better things to do, and as typical as it sounds, pay no attention to the bitches in the background talking bull. You're way better than them and they'll realize it soon enough. xxx
 
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#4 ·
Yes..

I know this all too well..

High school is full of abuse and neglect from those awful children.

You have to use this time to enrich yourself!

If the kids are mean to you, dive into the wonderful array of books in the library.

Read up about fashion, art, photography and anything else your heart desires =3

You can undermine them in any way, and you are already more intelligent/beautiful/good-hearted than they are.

THey are jealous which is why they all pick on you.

Stay strong lovely one <3
 
#5 ·
Thanks :) I try to convince myself that they are just jealous but my classmates poke their nose into what I am doing ALL THE FREAKING TIME.
I build up my courage and volunteer for something, only to get jeers and silent laughter.
I always try to stand up for myself, but I'm a total coward. Some of them... are just terrribly terrible. I'm just so afraid that after streaming I'll still be in the same class as some of them next year... then my secondary school life would be totally ruined by them.
Feelings so conflicted.