Ok, some tips for reducing lax usage:
-Set a weekly limit (kind of like a calorie limit) for how many times you are willing to use them. Don't go above this number. Start highish, and then gradually reduce. If you start using more than you want, you can still increase a little and gradually work your way down.
-Replace artificial laxatives with natural laxatives. This can be coffee, enzymes (you can buy at the store) or teas.
-When you do eat, eat foods extremely high in fiber so that you are having semi-regular bowel movements, and drink lots of water. Being regular reduces bloating, which will reduce the urge to use artificial means.
-Replace the urge to cleanse yourself with laxatives with other things, like exercise, or even taking a shower. Something calming, that reduces swelling. Massage is great for this too.
-Don't feel discouraged when you do use laxatives, just keep trying and making adjustments that work best for your body. Because you are restricting, there may be times when you actually need to use laxatives to medicinally treat constipation.