im curious how common they are among our community.
this happened to me too. It took years to get properly diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I do think I have a fair amount of bpd traits but bipolar is a more accurate diagnosis.i was diagnosed with bpd at one point in a hospital but im not anymore. they will just diagnose anyone who is a woman and self injures with it i think. they still have cluster b traits on my chart but basically the only bullet points under it are “h/o of nssi”
I understand the stigma coming from the label of narcissism, but it's important to remember that this is precisely what's behind it for so many people with NPD.was put in situations that caused so much genuine self hatred that if I don’t inflate the good parts of myself to compensate I feel l have nothing to keep me alive.
I've been diagnosed with both of these multiple times (sometimes two of them comorbid, sometimes one with traits of the other and sometimes mixed PD with traits of both) and went to a personality disorders specific treatment, so if you ever want to talk about it you can always PM me!now as a whole adult I think it’s become something near covert narcissism/BPD from trauma.